Your bridesmaids have been your saviour in all that wedding planning and celebration. They have been your support system all your life and also helped you through that celebration without turning you into a bridezilla. They must have met all your expectations, but there will be some things that they would want you to know of… So, here’s how to stay in tune with your best friends and keep them happy.

They should know about your expectations

It all depends upon your expectation from your bridesmaids. Do you want them to be a part of your celebrations or do you want them to be part of all that decision making and to-dos involved in planning your wedding? They can be a part of the tasks such as addressing wedding invitations, buying favours for the guests and the list is endless. So, either way, let your bridesmaids know your expectations from them. A clear conversation will help you avoid any kind of misunderstanding with your bridesmaids.

They want all your friends to know about them 

It’s a fact that not all your friends can be your bridesmaids. So, you can’t let anyone assume that they are the part of your bride squad. So, let them know whom you’ve chosen so neither you nor your bridesmaids feel awkward about it around non-bridal-party members. 

They want you to have the wedding you always dreamt

Being your support system at various points of your life and even the most important day of your life, they want you to have your perfect wedding just like you always wanted. So, plan with them about the theme of your wedding functions as well as the dress codes, so that they can help you to have your dream wedding. Tell them what you are envisioning to make them a part of it.

They want to enjoy the fullest with you 

In an Indian wedding, the pre-wedding functions are all about dancing and having fun with all the near and dear ones. Your bridesmaids must be waiting for these days since your wedding got fixed. They want to enjoy the fullest and dance their heart out with you before you tying the knot. 

They want to share the same bond they have with you

This one is really obvious and important too. You must be caught up in all that wedding-related drama, which makes it difficult to relate with the world outside your wedding. So, whenever you are out with one of your bridesmaids, make sure you are not talking about your wedding. It’s better to talk about your friend’s life, her love life, career and so on. Plus, keep this bond alive during as well as after your wedding to make them feel special.



Also, read: What are the duties of a bridesmaid?