Things that no one tells you about married life
Get married is one of the biggest milestones of your life. But the real struggle starts after you tie the knot. Be it arranged or love marriage you would really crave for a comprehensive manual that could help you to get acquainted with all the things that may happen over the during the course of your married life. Trust us, there is no manual and you will be on our own to go through everything and realizing different things at different levels of your wedded relationship which may make you go a bit of crazy.
So, here are some tidbits from our side that no one mentions before you tie the knot…
There will be times when you won’t be on the same page
This is a very common situation faced by various married and even non-married couples. Getting married won’t imply that you’ll stay in sync all the time. Being two individuals, you both will have your own views, likings or choices that will divide you sometimes even though you try to be a single unit. Such issues can be solved with patience and compassion for one another that will help you understand each other properly.
You don’t share similar interests
Just because you decided to stay together forever, doesn’t mean you will do the same thing as your partner does. And that’s okay! People usually think that married life is all about constant couples hang out, but it’s not at all like that. If he takes likes to go for adventure sports, then don’t force yourself to join if you don’t like it. Give each other some space and do things at the other person pleases.
Living as per your partner’s quirks
If you are aware of your partner’s bad habits like being careless or messy, then they might not go away just because you got married to him and this can happen the other way around too. So, keep in mind, his or her habits may remain the same even you two got married.
Silly fights over Netflix
One of the common issue faced by couples who live by Netflix. Get yourself ready for silly fights over between Breaking Bad vs Narcos. Much of your time would be wasted in selecting the series instead of watching it. Nowadays, Netflix has become a huge part of people lives therefore, its related debates are bound to happen.
Some people who would be mad about not getting an invite to your wedding
This happens to all the couples and you can’t do anything about it! It’s your wedding and it’s your decision whom to invite and everyone should respect that. But there will be some people who must be feeling slighted because they weren’t invited on your big day!
Sometimes you will go to bed mad
Many couples go with the idea of working out things before you go to sleep but trust us this may seem to be unrealistic. Sometimes we do actually need to sleep on our issues. This helps us articulate how we feel the next day. Plus discussing something when you’re already super angry won’t result in anything positive. So, this may happen many times
Just like having doubts about purchasing your car or picking the college or career for you, there will be some moments when you will have doubts about picking the right partner. There will be times when you will wonder if this is the person you’re going to spend the rest of your life with. This is human nature, you don’t have to worry about it…
If you have other concerns too, do share them with us in the comments below…